We’re half way through the first month of a new year…2012. By this time we all should have set or defined new goals for ourselves. If you’re having a little trouble with doing this, perhaps this will help.
New Year’s Resolutions
What’s A New Year’s Resolution Anyway?
A New Year’s Resolution is a declaration, decision, promise, pledge, oath or vow
- It is a Resolve: i.e. a determination or steadfastness
- It can also be a solution (to come to an end of something in your life that is not positive.
- Or, to find the answer to an issue in your life.
- Or perhaps find an answer or outcome of something pressing to make it better or fix the problem. These can include your health, fitness, finances or relationships.
The key words in my opinion are: resolve, promise or vow (which is a more intense word for promise). When I think of resolve, I think of “the conclusion to the whole matter” of something that is a problem. The initiative is taken on my part, I take action because it is a promise that I make to myself. A vow that I make to myself for peace, better health, wealth and overall happiness is just as important as a vow I would make to God. I wouldn’t make a vow to God and not keep, it so I won’t make a vow to myself and break it. I may have to dig deep inside myself for more determination but that’s okay because my happiness is worth it.
The most common New Year’s Resolutions are:
- exercising and losing weight
- paying down credit cards
- putting more money away for a rainy day
- trying to release stress and relax more
- improving job skills or learning something new
- working on a long desired goal
- take a nice vacation